Should I tell my children their late father had an affair?

The big question you have to ask is, what do you hope to achieve by telling them? There are other people you can talk to, says Annalisa Barbieri After a long marriage, my husband passed away suddenly some time ago. What my children dont know is that, when they were growing up, a crisis occurred in our marriage following his disclosure that he was in a long-distance relationship with a woman he had met at a conference. This led to a long, difficult period in our lives as he could not make a decision to leave either relationship, saying that he cared for and loved two women and felt he needed both in his life. I could not extricate myself …